This is how we grow
by Nick on Sep.19, 2009, under The Truth
Everyone on earth has their own definition on every aspects, including ‘love’. Besides from disclosing every truth that I have been finding for, I realized that the distinct perception in humans has rendered us to devise our own escape instead on harping on other’s idea. In simple words, I used to think that the best advice is from those who went through it before, but I was wrong. Very wrong.
A key is used to unlock a lock, but it may not be able to unlock every lock. A valid example is the way to achieve social proximity. While someone may be good in drawing attention, it does not necessarily means that you or me can do the same too by imitate them.
I just discovered this ‘view’ days ago, while I’ve been thinking why people just can’t be the same, provided the statement ‘nothing is impossible’ to be true. I also remembered when I was so keen to have a girlfriend and I have been asking ways to woo them, it was ended up with thousands of methods in my mind with all of them to no avail. I guess it’s up to us to plan our own escape, while other opinions and advices are merely persuasive to help you. Same goes for studies (another good example), some are good in good memory, whereas some are good in good brain power, hence they just can’t adopt one method which is proven to be the most effective method.
We are a library per se, we own our world of definitions, we view things differently and we deal with it distinctively than others. When we failed an approach, we will seek for another until and the approach which works will be stored permanently in our brain, this how we grow.
