Definition of Life and Memories.

I’ve been crazy to have a girlfriend in my life, one of the reason is that I studied in a guys school since primary and secondary school (till form 3). Two years ago I moved to PJ, Selangor and start experiencing studying with girls (Form 4 in high school), and I was a love-desperado till I almost liked 30% of the girls I knew, it was miserable.

Still being a love-desperado with reduced adrenaline dosage, I’m still an ‘occupied-hunger’, trying to get rid of my single status. Recently, I have a tour to my own blog and re-read everything I have written, and then I have this question in mind, do we really need to have a boyfriend or girlfriend? The answer is always double-sided where none is correct. For me, I think coupling is a great thing though, not to mention showing off.

How sweet is it to know that even everyone is opposing you, there is still one believing you and always stands by your side.

When you’re feeling lonely, there is one willing to sacrifice their time just to brighten up your minutes.

When you’re bored, there is one to always laugh at your joke even though it is not funny.

When your mind is congested, there is one to bear the weight on your shoulders with you.

My friends(guys) are kind of desperate too, so I’m not walking alone heh. But they are good in getting a girlfriend, wondering is there a skill needed for wooing a girl.

Several days ago I came across an article mentioning about there was a case of a burglar trying to break into an old man’s house, and I feel the decision made by the judge is a little absurd. Let me tell the story with my own words to make it not that complicated.

Mr.Revill planned to break into a brick shed owned by Mr. Newbery at about 2 o’clock in the morning. Mr.Newbery, the aged 76 old man was sleeping in the shed in order to protect his property after earlier thefts and vandalism. He had a shotgun with him. When he was awakened and realized that Revill was trying to break into his shed, Mr.Newbery loaded the shotgun and shot at Revill. The shot hit Revill on the right upper arm and chest. Revill was then prosecuted soon.

Mr.Revill then brought up a civil case agaisnt Mr.Newbery claiming injuries he had suffered from the shotgun blast. In the end the judge had ordered Mr.Newbery to pay Mr.Revill £4,033 for the injuries he had caused to Mr.Revill.

This outcome of the judge’s decision was a little ridiculous for me as in common sense, an aged 76 old man is not capable to stop the burglar with his bear hands and probably he will get injuries with his property stolen. Mr.Newbery has the rights to protects his properties but he wouldn’t have causing injury to Mr.Revill if Revill was not having the intention to break into Newbery’s shed.

The world has been opposing us for whatever reasons we are doing, and that has caused some painful moments for certain of us. An average of 70 years lifespan is not long actually, as now we’ve already in years after the day we born. Therefore I’m trying to giving reasons for my readers to be happy, it works well for me though so I would like to share this with everyone.

As we have known, we have no choice but to survive through sweet and bitter moments in our life despite how much we despise or reluctant to abide by, therefore since we have to go through every moment, why can’t we just live with happiness and look everything in the bright side? You must have already thought that if everyone can do as I just said above then why do I bothered of telling this to everyone, the fact is this is one of the major reason to the path of happiness and yet people doesn’t seems to understand it.

If a mere broken up relationship or a loss of money is something that deters one from being happy, then have you seen someone died in front of you? Have you been placed in poverty where sands are your only food? Have you been raped or forced to be a prostitute? Come on and think bright, as I said in earlier posts, you never get the worst, not even you lose all your family members or both your hands and legs.

I know certain things tend to tears us apart, but do you think your sadness or pummeled heart going to pause the world momentarily for you to express your feelings? If you do not move on, you’re falling behind. Thus sometimes it’s better to forget than remember.

Being happy is not a destination, instead it is a neverending journey. I would be glad to help if you just post your comment and tell me what deters you from obtaining your happiness.

We have made tons of decisions and thoughts in our life, it is certainly that a big portion of our actions did not really went through a deep consideration and we tend to regret and rethink about it only after it has occurred. Does this proof the stupid side of humans? Or humans are just arrogant for being too clever?

What is our purpose to live? I used to answer this with ‘for happiness and excitement’. Nonetheless, I no longer will answer that, instead, I don’t have an answer for that and I not sure what I’m going to answer. Isn’t everything will be vanished after one has passed away? I assume you know that after one is dead everything of him will be just disappear in time, memories, wealth, and all the good deeds he has done and contributed. Hence, what is the purpose of being good? and what is the purpose for living on this so called ‘colorful’ earth since everything will turn out to be a dream.

Live, serve, contribute, sacrifice….What are these terms used for and what is the purpose of it? So do theft, murder, war, and betrayal, the difference between them is just only a word. Why do we get sadness and hatred when someone killed our beloved? If we were taught that killing is a symbol of love, isn’t that we’ll all feel glad and happy whenever our beloved got murdered?

Money, or mere rectangular paper notes where everyone dreamed to have a bunch of it has always lead humans move out of track. I wonder, why do we have to get those rectangular paper notes in order to live? Why humans murder each other to get those notes? Are they worth that much till blood must be shed? If our trades just comprise of give and take, won’t the world turn out to a better place to stay, at least a little?

Since the world is demanding peace right now, then why should the ‘peacemakers’ running trades with money? Why can’t they wipe out the term money and live together by giving and taking? Wealth and poverty are the root of war and murder, for instance US declared war over terrorism just because of they have the wealth to do that, in the other way for countries like Zimbabwe could not do shits if someone decides to mess with them. Provided the world is dominated by you, what do you obtain besides having a temporarily power and wealth which will be taken over by war in the matter of time?

Agnostic beings usually seek for God’s guidance when they are near dead, it is solely just because they are afraid of what will happen to them afterlife, they think that with the help of the God they can find a world where peace is never ending. But if we think logically (by not relating and referring any religion’s teachings), is God a toy for one to monopoly and manipulate? And since one isn’t fear for being sentenced to death and punished, then why do one fear of being lost in afterlife?