Definition of Life and Memories.

Every object that comes into our attention gives us choices to make, to take them; to leave them alone. Numerous amount of things happen around us everyday, and sometimes we have to make a decision whether to ‘fight or flight’ it. Challenges are hard, but rewarding, it’s up to you to overwhelm and dominate the challenge in order to get the reward. We are weak, we tend to give up very easily, however, we can’t complete a task if no effort is wasted.

‘You don’t win until you win’, this sentence inspired me a lot when I almost gave up sometimes. Not even bible states that you might fail if you have tried to put your sweat in your work. Before we pick up a task, we should have already known the consequences and benefits for doing it. The first step of everything is always bitter and hard, if you don’t reach for your first step, you will never make it to your second step.

If you fail and you think that the world is opposing you, think about Thomas Edison, he did not take any encouragement but instead it was discouraging words he had taken. It was ‘impossible’ he intended to conquer, what about us?

I’ve figured this motivation method when my friend was having doubts on himself to get a girl. Just a little motivation.

Ask yourself, Do you want to be with her/him?

If yes, proceed to second question, if no, forget and never mention about him/her anymore

Do you want her/him to be with you?

If yes, proceed to next question, if no, forget and never mention about him/her anymore

Would you let her/him go and watch her/him be with her partner but not you?

If yes, forget and never mention about him/her anymore, if no, proceed.

Would you let your fear and shy halt your desire to be with her/him?

If yes, forget and never mention about her/him anymore, if no, proceed.

Congratulations if you’ve reached here. You want her/him, you need her/him, you want to be with her/him, and you’ve made your mind clear, now go get her/him.

Which breathing girl doesn’t seek for a perfect partner? Muscular, tall, handsome, rich, talented are what girls always dreamed their boyfriend to be. But expectations is what that brought them down.

Their expectations have given those so called perfect guy a big advantage – to get advantage using their advantage. A guy can disguise, until they got a bulls eye on their prey, this can always be seen when girls fell for the traps of their boyfriend, or perfect partner. They have the choice, so do the opposite sex beings. Girls usually have enormous expectations then will fall down hard when they are rejected, and there comes the stupid intentions of suicide and revenge(e.g. to other girl for stealing her love)

This ‘expectation’ surely gives the ‘non-perfect’ guys a big impact. They will feel beaten up, as if the world is to oppose them. This leads to further cheating on girlfriends and rape cases. They think they are not as the same standard as the perfect ones, so they want to be good. Who is classified as those non-perfect? Fat, plump, poor, ugly, or whatever leads to a disinterest in girls.

I like a girl, no past tense. Since the day I moved to a new school, she’s like the first or second girl I met. I looked at her, knowing that my heart is already adhere to her look despite there are other better ones. She did not see me as a man, and I did not reveal to her I am a man.

I was an undercover, being a friend but not a girlfriend’s beloved. The passion towards her was solid, tough, and immovable. I talked to her, not. She knew it, not.

She’s just a young girl indulging into her teenage life, I gave her an Alias, Jamie. Jamie is tall, a near round shaped head, short hair, and… a girl I guess. I do not think she was a girl though, she must be an angel, with codename Jamie, and real name Angel.

Angel, you are the actress of my dream, the foundation of my life. I am always right here for you if you need me, for I will never dislike you.