Definition of Life and Memories.

Most of us prefer having plenty of friends where one of the major reason is they are afraid to be lonely. Having lots of friends is not something harmful, but when the two of you are going to be apart, that’s the time where you will feel like torn in pieces. I’ve seen people lost their smile for months when their friends have to leave them for studies or migrate to other countries.

When you own them you feel glad for not being lonely, but when you lose them you will get two times the ‘misery’ instead. This is because both of you have shared a moment of happiness or sadness that pulled the bond of friendship closer.

Storing a friend in your brain means storing the memories with your friend in your brain too. Imagine how many times you will be pierced right through your heart when they have to leave you. I have experienced this once when I move to another place, I stood in front of my friends, speechless and appreciating what we had both done together, prayed for each other, and given out tears.

Though you may deny my statement saying that you could learn how to appreciate you friends through parting, I do not think that the lesson is worth for the torment as one will definitely obtain this lesson sooner or later, it may just arrive anytime.

The world has been opposing us for whatever reasons we are doing, and that has caused some painful moments for certain of us. An average of 70 years lifespan is not long actually, as now we’ve already in years after the day we born. Therefore I’m trying to giving reasons for my readers to be happy, it works well for me though so I would like to share this with everyone.

As we have known, we have no choice but to survive through sweet and bitter moments in our life despite how much we despise or reluctant to abide by, therefore since we have to go through every moment, why can’t we just live with happiness and look everything in the bright side? You must have already thought that if everyone can do as I just said above then why do I bothered of telling this to everyone, the fact is this is one of the major reason to the path of happiness and yet people doesn’t seems to understand it.

If a mere broken up relationship or a loss of money is something that deters one from being happy, then have you seen someone died in front of you? Have you been placed in poverty where sands are your only food? Have you been raped or forced to be a prostitute? Come on and think bright, as I said in earlier posts, you never get the worst, not even you lose all your family members or both your hands and legs.

I know certain things tend to tears us apart, but do you think your sadness or pummeled heart going to pause the world momentarily for you to express your feelings? If you do not move on, you’re falling behind. Thus sometimes it’s better to forget than remember.

Being happy is not a destination, instead it is a neverending journey. I would be glad to help if you just post your comment and tell me what deters you from obtaining your happiness.